25 Best examples of first messages on Tinder

30x sent, 18x responses: 60 % success rate

16 First Tinder messages (to have dates in 2022 !))

Nowadays, Tinder has become an essential tool to meet women.

If you know how to do it, you can meet with it enormously. I sometimes have appointments with three different girls in the same week.

But you still have to know what to send.

Don’t worry, you’re in the right place: today we’re going to review 16 concrete examples of first Tinder messages to copy and paste to your guise So that your matches finally answer you. All these examples have all been tested by me.

• Concrete examples of first Tinder messages
• #1: The first name
• #2: roar
• #3: the old-school approach
• #4: Future projection
• #5: the favorite dish
• #6: Sweet arrogance
• #7: The favorite rapper
• #8: Sweet arrogance (pt. 2)
• #9: GIF followed by a “Hello. »»
• #10: The GIF of a star or a film character
• #11: The deep question
• #12: The Game of Thrones fan
• #13: the bad news
• #14: the ultimate choice
• #15: crystal ball
• #16: The war of astrological signs
• How to meet women today

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Concrete examples of first Tinder messages

When I walk on the internet, I have the annoying impression that many men always believe in fairy tales ..

“Win 1 million euros in 5 minutes with my new secret technique ! »»

“Put all women in your bed with my new tip of seduction”

And the best of all:

“Here is the 1st Tinder message that guarantees you a 100% response ! »»

At the risk of spoiling the party, I will be frank: this so-called first Magic Tinder message does not exist.

Even by sending the best message in Tinder’s story, you will sometimes not receive any response. Maybe she got into a couple, or that she is not in a mood, or that her guinea pig has just died … Whatever reason. The “perfect” message does not exist.

That was the bad news. Now let’s go to Good new :

There are first Tinder messages that considerably increase the probability that a girl will answer you. And these are the messages that we review in this article.

I tested these 16 examples on dozens of matches in several cities in France. I’m not going to lie to you, it was long and tedious.

But I can now write this article in good conscience, because the examples I have included there work indeed.

Attention :

Receiving a response does not depend that your first message.

The other fundamental aspect is your profile.

With a good profile, not only will you get many more matches, but your response rate will increase sharply.

If you want to create the perfect profile, read this article:

#1: The first name

30x sent, 18x responses: 60 % success rate

Why it works:

According to this scientific study, the first name of a person is the word they prefer to hear.

Calling a woman by her first name is therefore a great way to get her attention and make good impression from the first message.

The most frequent answer:

Almost all women answer with: “Ruben ! »».

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

Now is the time to engage the conversation. The options are endless.

For example, you can say:

If I met one of your friends, how he would describe you ?

You want other examples ? It’s this way :

#2: roar

30x sent, 18x responses: 60 % success rate

Why it works:

Here is a rather original introduction. And on Tinder, the only way to be successful is to stand out.

In addition, most girls love animals.

The most frequent answer:

Some girls respond to another an animal noise, but most of the time, they answer a boat message of the type ” Hey how are you ? »».

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

You can stay on the theme of animals by asking one of my favorite questions:

If you were an animal, it would be ?

Pro advice:

Once she replied, ask her why she chose this animal.

Take this opportunity to tease it smoothly.

You can refer to a particular characteristic of the animal it has chosen or send it a GIF.

#3: the old-school approach

30x sent, 20x responses: 67% success rate

Why it works:

By sending this first message to Tinder, you show:

• Franchise: After all, the girl you have match is an unknown. Why claim the opposite ?
• Originality: we no longer really hear this kind of sentence in the 21st century

In addition, everyone knows this point of excitement felt when meeting a perfect stranger in a bar or in a box. By expressing it verbally from the first message, you launch a similar excitation point from the start of the conversation.

The most frequent answer:

In general, girls play the game. The most frequent message is: “Hello, Foreign Chèr” or a similar variant.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

You just set the tone for a dynamic conversation. So you can challenge her by asking her open questions that will encourage her to express himself and play the game in turn.

What is the most exciting thing you have made recently ?

#4: Future projection

30x sent, 20x answers: 67% success

Why it works:

You want to stand out from other men on Tinder ?

So above all, do not ask him boards about his job or his studies of the type ” What do you do for a living ? »» (especially not !))

By creating a role -playing game:

• You go out
• You create a connection with her from the first message

The most frequent answer:

80% of girls play the game and pretend we knew each other. The others respond with “hahahaha”.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

Continue on your momentum imagining a scenario in which you have known yourself for years.

Do not hesitate to be in excess (this is only a game !)). In addition, you will score points for your overflowing creativity.

#5: the favorite dish

30x sent, 19x answers: 63 % success rate

Why it works:

By reading this first Tinder message, she will imagine herself as soon as she prefers to eat the most. It is therefore a very good way to trigger in it positive emotions that will encourage it to express itself.

As long as it is a “Food Lover” (which is very likely, you only have to look at the number of times that #Food has been tagged on Instagram), and you just earned 10 points in addition.

The most frequent answer:

Almost all girls answer by the name of their favorite dish. Logic.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

You can take the opportunity to tease it. For example :

Admit that I could probably wake you up at any time of the night with this dish on a plate and that wouldn’t even get you drunk !

Once the conversation is launched, changes subject and begins to flirt with it. Let me explain how to do in this article:

Pro advice:

If she replies that she loves pancakes, take advantage of it to fart it a little. For example, you can say that your friends call you the king of pancakes, and that you are sometimes invited to the Élysée to cook them to the president in person.

You can then use this joke when inviting him to go out: “Ok, the time has come … You’re ready to eat the best pancakes in the world ? »»

The downside: your pancakes have an interest in being Really good.

#6: Sweet arrogance

30x sent, 18x responses: 60% success rate

Attention :

Message to send if – and only if – you have a very Good Tinder profile.

Why it works:

Yes, it’s a bit arrogant. And that’s why it works. This implies that you know what you are worth.

The most frequent answer:

Most women respond with ” . »Or something similar.

Since you position yourself as a guy sure of him from the start of the conversation, she will probably try to test you to see if you are really the one you claim to be ..

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

For example, she can test you saying:

You wouldn’t be a little pretentious, by chance ?

Above all, don’t justify yourself. In general, I do not answer this question and I change the subject, saying for example:

Tell me a little about yourself !

#7: The favorite rapper

30x sent, 18x responses: 60% success rate

Why it works:

Given the success of rap in France at the moment, it is very likely that it listens to it all day long.

From the first message, you have one thing in common: your musical tastes. The connection is established. It is now only to engage the conversation.

Of course, it’s up to you to analyze your profile to see if it could be his case. For example, does not send this message if she says she is a rock fan in her description.

The most frequent answer:

Most girls answer by the name of their favorite songs or say that it is not the style of music they listen to.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

You can continue to forge this connection by speaking of the rapper in question. For example :

Her new album is impressive, I have chills every time I listen to her

Later in the conversation, you can use this reference when inviting him to go out. For example : “Sushi evening at my house on Saturday evening with Nekfeu album in a loop ? »»

Pro advice:

You may have noticed that I wrote the girl’s first name in almost all my 1st Tinder messages.

This is a great way to give him the impression that you did not copy this message to ten other girls (even if this is the case, little rascal).

#8: Sweet arrogance (pt. 2)

30x sent, 16x responses: 53 % success rate

Why it works:

Once again, a rather arrogant introduction, but always with a lot of humor.

With the word “still”, you imply that your Tinder account is overflowing with matches that are just waiting for your message. But by expressing your enthusiasm (“Yesss”)), You show her that she stands out, that she is special.

The most frequent answer:

Most of the answers can be classified these two categories:

• She answers your question and starts to talk about her. Perfect, you can start conversation.
• She comments on the word “again”. It’s a test. Remains relaxed, do not justify yourself and change the subject.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

Continues to challenge it. For example, if she answers you “Me it’s Margot ��”, You can say :

Cool, but I already know your first name. What interests me is what is hidden behind, this human being behind his screen;).

Pro advice:

Here is an alternative to this first Tinder message: “Yesss, yet another match ! Ok, tell me three things at random about you. »»

#9: GIF followed by a “Hello. »»

30x sent, 19x answers: 63 % success rate

Why it works:

Too few men use Tinder gifs.

In Tinder’s GIF function, just enter a word (“hello” or “hello”) to have dozens of suggestions of GIFs to send.

You can, from now on, save a dozen gifs so as not to have to think when you make with a girl.

The most frequent answer:

Most respond by “Hey ! »» or another GIF.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

You can use one of the hooking sentences set out in this article:

Pro advice:

You can use gifs during the rest of the conversation, but do not abuse them.

#10: The GIF of a star or a film character

30x sent, 20x responses: 67% success rate

Why it works:

It’s a fact: people love memes. What they love even more is the same with stars or film characters.

So, send him a Ryan Gosling GIF, Channing Tatum, Barney Stinson, etc ..

The most frequent answer:

Almost all women respond with another GIF or an emoticon.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

You can answer the GIF that it has just sent using the following format:

It’s me when I [description of what’s going on in the gif]

#11: The deep question

30x sent, 19x answers: 63 % success rate

Why it works:

The strength of this 1st Tinder message is that you encourage it to reflect on the positive aspects of his life. So you set the tone for a sincere and open conversation, where she will feel comfortable to express herself.

The most frequent answer:

Most women are intrigued by the issue but it is difficult for them to answer them. So expect a message of style: “Wow, uh … frankly, no idea. »»

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

You can help him answer it by specifying the meaning of your question. For example, ask him to tell you about his greatest passion.

Some women will ask you the same question in return, so prepare your answer.

#12: The Game of Thrones fan

30x sent, 17x responses: 57 % success rate

Why it works:

Game of Thrones is one of the most watched series in the world. You know someone around you who has not looked at him ? (No, your grandmother does not count …)

Which means that most of the girls you are matching will understand the reference.

It is also a great way to make her laugh at the start of the conversation.

The downside is that they will probably know that it is a copy-paste message. In this case, plays the honesty card:

Yes I admit. I just found it super funny so I wanted to share it with you.

The most frequent answer:

9 out of 10 girls are folded in half and impressed by the originality of the message.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

Simply ask him to introduce himself.

Your first message was quite original, you can now relax and have a normal conversation for four to five messages.

#13: the bad news

30x sent, 19x answers: 63 % success rate

Why it works:

Most men would never take the risk of starting a conversation this way.

Compared to ” Hi, how are you ? »» And “Hey” that she receives all day long, you position yourself as someone different.

In addition, according to this study confirms it.

Personally, I often go on a role play in connection with infidelity, an extramarital affair or stories of unbearable parents-in-law. For example :

I just learned that you had your colleague Roger for 3 years now … You hadn’t told me he was gay ? What is this story ?

9 out of 10 girls play the game.

#14: the ultimate choice

30x sent, 18x responses: 60 % success rate

Why it works:

It’s an atypical way to start a conversation. The better the question, the better.

The most frequent answer:

Most girls simply answer the question.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

You can add a layer saying, “There is only one possible answer ! »».

It increases the probability that it plays the game.

According to her answer, take advantage of it to tease her or make her a compliment-the goal being to make her laugh. But does not take long before changing the subject.

Pro advice:

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#15: crystal ball

30x sent, 21x answers: 70 % success rate (!!))

This message wins the trophy of Best first message Tinder.

70% success rate, all the same.

Why it works:

By asking him to guess two things that you have in common from the first message:

• You challenge it
• You attribute his curiosity
• You create a link with her

The most frequent answer:

Almost all women lend themselves to the game and try to guess.

Attention :

Before sending this 1st Tinder message, you have to analyze your profile to find two things you might have in common.

For example: she drinks a glass of wine in one of her photos. And you love wine. And hop, a common point.

Or: she says in the description that she loves hiking. And you, in one of your photos, you do trekking in the mountains. One thing in addition.

This is one of the reasons why it is so important that your photos and your description transmit your personality.

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

Nothing’s easier. Continues to talk about your common points to maintain the link created at the start of the conversation.

#16: The war of astrological signs

30x sent, 19x answers: 63 % success rate

You have noticed the number of women who put their astrological signs in their Tinder description ?

Yes, I know … either, I don’t understand the principle.

But no need to be an expert in the matter to make her laugh from the first message:

Why it works:

From the first message:

• You tease it gently
• You make her laugh
• You stand out from other men

What more ? 10 points for Gryffindor !

The most frequent answer:

How to engage the conversation afterwards:

Most of the time, I chain with:

Okay, I’m ready to sponge if you tell me three interesting things about you

How to meet women today

Great, you have now 16 Examples of first Tinder messages to your paraphernalia.

Use them today and you will receive many more answers.

But don’t forget: go ahead of the copy and paste. For a girl to want to meet you in real life, the conversation must remain fluid and natural.

Do not hesitate to share your experiences in the comments at the bottom of this page !

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25+ Best Examples of first messages on Tinder

There are four elements to take into account to write the best first Tinder messages: personalization, creativity, humor and a declaration that arouses curiosity. If you are short of time, fly our examples of first Tinder messages below and let the magic operate.

Tinder offers myriads of singles to find the type of relationship they have always dreamed of. Whether it’s finding a partner for a relaxed evening or building a serious relationship, Tinder is a winning game where nobody loses.

Finding a match is not a problem here. The real game begins when you have to send the first Tinder message to your match. Women between 20 and 30 years old use dating applications ten times a day on average, and only spend 8 minutes per session, so you need an opening sentence that immediately attracts her attention.

The best first Tinder message reflects your unique personality and corresponds to the characteristics of the other person’s profile. If you want to discover original ways to start a conversation on Tinder, you are in the right place.

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1. Example #1: Compliment + Question
2. Example #2: Greeting + Question
3. Example #3: first funny tinder messages
4. Example #4: Drague phrases on pets
5. Example #5: deepen profile information
6. Current errors: what you should not do in your first message on Tinder

Example #1: Compliment + Question

Random compliments such as “pretty photo” or “pretty face” will only put you in their reception box, without helping you start a conversation. Check their profile photo to see if there are real interesting things that they would be delighted to chat with you.

The first Tinder message can talk about their Halloween costume, a hiking photo, a funny flirting phrase or a nice coffee on their photos. Send a honeyed dredge sentence to this photo, then ask a simple question.

Here are some examples of first messages ::

• You have so cute dogs. I can know their names ?
• I must say that your Halloween costume is too beautiful. I can see your other Halloween costumes ?
• The place on your photo is so pretty. Where is it ?
• Looks like you have a lot of having this photo. Should I assume that you are always full of joy ?
• I love your guitar. So what type of music you play ?

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Reading receipts on Tinder: what is it and it’s worth it ?

Does the reading functionality of Tinder notifications really deserve all the attention it arouses ? Discover it with us by exploring the advantages and disadvantages of this intriguing functionality in the world of online meetings.

If you spent hours on Tinder in Swiper on the left and right to find your perfect match, you may have noticed a new brilliant feature that the application has just deployed – the accused of reading !

Like the accused of reading your regular SMS, Tinder’s reading accused give you the power to know when someone read your message and left you while waiting. It is really the ultimate in power !

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1. “Hey there, Wondrin ‘What Those Little Blue Checkmarks On Your Tinder Messages Mean? Well, My Friend, They’re Called Tinder Read Receipts. Basalely, they let you know if the person you are chattin ‘with has actually read your message or not not. Pretty Nifty, Huh?”” Hi you may be wondering what these little blue checks mean on your Tinder messages ? Well, my friend is the “Tinder reading receipts”. Basically, they let you know if the person you are talking to have really read your message or not. Quite practical, no ?””
2. How does “reading” functionality work on Tinder ?
3. How much is the purchase of reading evidence on Tinder ? Come on, tell us everything ! 😉
4. How to activate reading accused ?
5. How to deactivate the reading confirmation functionality ?
6. The accused of reception of Tinder are worth it ?

“Hey there, Wondrin ‘What Those Little Blue Checkmarks On Your Tinder Messages Mean? Well, My Friend, They’re Called Tinder Read Receipts. Basalely, they let you know if the person you are chattin ‘with has actually read your message or not not. Pretty Nifty, Huh?”” Hi you may be wondering what these little blue checks mean on your Tinder messages ? Well, my friend is the “Tinder reading receipts”. Basically, they let you know if the person you are talking to have really read your message or not. Quite practical, no ?””

Tinder reading functionality allows users to confirm when their messages have been read by the other person in their discussion. It looks like the SMS reading function, where a notification is sent to the sender when the recipient saw the message.

By activating the reading function, Tinder users may be sure that their messages have been received and read by their potential meetings. This can help avoid misunderstandings and misunderstandings when messages are not read or responded in time.

However, it is important to note that the Tinder reading function has a cost. Users must buy credits individually, then activate them for the correspondence for which they wish to receive them.

When Tinder reading notifications are activated, a credit is deducted from the credits purchased by the user.

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Tinder “reading receptions” are a “premium” functionality that is not included in the Basic Tinder Plus or Tinder Gold subscription. To use this feature, buy the reading receptions individually. When you have match a profile and want to activate the reading receptions, you can buy a minimum of five at a time. You will then be redirected to a page where you can buy five, ten or twenty Tinder reading receptions.

Once you have bought the reading receptions, you can activate them for the profiles you want to follow. However, it is important to note that authorizing the reading receptions for a profile counts as a user, regardless of the number of messages you send.

In addition, know that all profiles do not have available reading receptions because users can deactivate this functionality and choose not to have their reading receptions reported by Tinder. Even if you have bought the reading receptions, you will not be able to activate them for all correspondence.

How much is the purchase of reading evidence on Tinder ? Come on, tell us everything ! 😉

Reading receipts on Tinder are neither free nor included in the premium subscription. In reality, this practical functionality has a cost. But don’t worry, it won’t necessarily ruin you.

The price of reading receipts on Tinder varies according to your gender, your location and your age, and they are sold by packs of 1, 5 or 20.

For example, currently in the United States, reading receipts cost:

• Five reading receipts cost $ 15.
• Ten reading receipts cost $ 20.
• And twenty reading receipts cost $ 30.

Thus, only one reading receipt varies from $ 3 to $ 1.50, according to your chosen pack. Although it is not exactly cheap, it is not prohibitive either. So, if you are ready to spend an additional dollars to find out if your messages have been read, reading receipts on Tinder could argue the trouble.

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